If you love them, set them free...

[mako]

So my plan is to just continue as I have been - keeping myself and kids happy and busy. I dont intend to push W to make up her mind. I want her to figure her self out on her own time.

Hey Kerry,

I think this is exactly what you should do. Your W seems so incredibly confused, I don't think she really knows what she wants. If you push her to choose you'll just push her away. It's good that you're ready for either path, but it sounds like she can earn your love again if that's what she chooses...as they say, patience can be your best friend.