All I can say is that your h is so inconsiderate- to call you drunk, wake you up when you're exhausted from working on the busiest day of the year, and talk to you about his ex-gf...on Valentine's Day! I would have been livid.

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08