Beauty, You sound like you know your boundaries and are sticking to them. Too bad your H doesn't like being called a loser. What does he think of himself after cheating on you, and your kids? Too many of these WAS just have no integrity or accountability, but they don't realize it and that is pathetic. Nor do many of them realize how much they hurt their LBS (or perhaps they just close their eyes and refuse to see it).
I don't understand how what he is doing is helping the kids future? Is he talking about school or what? I sure hope he isn't talking about D, how could that possibly help the kids?
I'm glad your in-laws will be helping you out.
As far as the bank account idea ... I realize you are joking but LOL! You could say, gee, honey, I thought OW was paying for everything and you wouldn't need it. I have 2 kids to feed. (But
