Totally. I had a big diatribe written for you yesterday saying roughly what kml said, but I thought it too harsh. You have so much going for you, what are you doing with her? Trade up!

And get the heck out of the basement. You are an engineer and make good money. The real estate market is perfect if you're not selling. Go get your own place and attract some higher quality women.

And I agree: why are you attracted to such a, well, basket case? Why do you think so little of yourself that you would hang with someone like her? Use your therapist to work on your issues and you'll never look back.

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