Thanks for responding!! I did tell her I didnt think it would help. I can see where she is coming from as a mom, I would want to say something and feel like I was being active to change things. I know it will only draw my H closer to the OW. There he dosent have to face anyone or anthing so it's easier I get that. I am close to my MIL but the reason she emailed the letter to the OW is because they have not been talking since this all happened. other than his cell (which he screens his calls) nobody knows how to get ahold of him.
I did read the book DR it has helped it's just so hard. Your right I probably do appear very needy. I was letting him call all the time and only answering maybe once a week. Then I just started missing him so much that I started calling, emailing texting whatever. I know I need to stop and I will try to do that. It will be even harder once I return home and we have to talk at least about our son. I think the idea of finding new things to do and new hobbies sounds great but I have a 16month old how do I find time to do that?
This sucks I want the hurt to end. I feel like he is giving me false hope. Wants both worlds and dosent want to give up either of us. That is not ok with me but I keep hoping he will leave her. I have just heard so many times already that he is going to and yet H does nothing!!!
I am really amazed at how many people this affects and it's good to hear that I am not alone. It's amazing reading other people's stories how they are so similar to my own.
