need something to hang on to

[Yoyowife]

HM,
I'm so sorry that you are here. It's best to just stay in one forum where everyone can find you. I think you are probably in the right place, everyone is so kind here.

I would let him do all of the contacting if you can. It's best not to appear needy to him.

If you close to your MIL I think you should call her and ask her to talk to your H and let him know that she did it on her own and that you had nothing to do with it. Explain to her that your appreciate her support, but right now it would probably hurt more than it would help.

Hugs