Isn't it true that we are all standers? But as you said so well...
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Being a stander does not mean that we will wait forever to get our WAS back.
I stood for my marriage, until there was no marriage left to stand for, and until there was none of the woman left that I was once married to.
I will stand for my next marriage. Because I, like each of you, believe that marriage is a life long commitment. I never wavered in that belief, my ex spouse did. We all learn eventually that we cannot control anyone but ourself.
I wish you peace. You sound like you've begun to find it, and that's a wonderful thing.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
