I can't 'prove' anything other than a few phone calls every day and now occasional text messages, which are down from 10 or more a day a few weeks ago. SHE seemed to act like this 'friendship' was progressing in a 'bad direction' and said so a week ago.
If the topic comes up, she avoids it. If I were to ask her point blank how do I know if she would be truthful?
Let's face it. WHATEVER is going on there is only 'in my face' because I can check the online call logs. Can they really have much of a 'relationship' anyway? This guys a family man and goes home for dinner every day. W doesn't have an apt, or anywhere else to go. She's home every night. It's stupid for her to carry on like this. Where's it going to go? Nowhere.
Another friend said to just stop checking, it doesn't matter because in June she's out anyway. If I stop checking then I won't 'see' it happening, whatever 'it' is.
Raising issues will just make it difficult for the kids D12 and D17. I can't carry that weight right now, and all the snooping I'm doing to 'prove' she's a whore or whatever is just destructive and IS affecting my attitude around her.
So, it seems like I'm better off not 'looking the other way' but just not 'looking'. If something happens that throws it in my face then I WILL deal harshly with it. Right now I have nothing but some overly friendly e-mails and some phone logs and text logs.
Is she in an EA? Probably. Will it help me to expose it if it's true? Not really. Not now.
