Finding my way out of the dark

[missmyfriend]

Mishka, I thought my W was weird as well because she hardly ever spewed. She was done with me. She seemed happy with her "choices" and did not seem to miss me or the kids.

I have learned recently that this is not the case. She is miserable. She is very unhappy.

What appears on the surface is not always as it seems. I am sure deep inside he is not very happy.

I was reading the most recent CharlyneCares message that was from Charlynes prodigal H. He said that he could not stop thinking of Charlyne on the Valentine's Days he was away from her as much as he tried. I have heard the same from others over the years. I never thought much about people I knew who had left their spouses, saying they still miss their spouse, many years later. The challenge for either person was that bridges had been burned. Actually more like nuked!

I do imagine there are some spouses that never look back but I think that is the exception and not the rule.

Your H is probably ticked off trying not to think about you. Being with the OW constantly, he will see her flaws, which are there, and they will drive him crazy. The other side of the fence is not a beautiful picture.

Happy Valentine's Day with your S13!!!