I still think you got some fight left in you, its not time to give up yet.
I would feel more like fighting if I was convinced that my efforts were leading somewhere. Once that legal paper is filed it becomes extremely difficult. It would really help if there were some DB results/statistics compiled by Michelle & Staff of how many R's happened as a result of DBing in a given year when couples were: (1) living together, (2) separated, (3) divorce was filed, (4) PA/EA, etc. Otherwise we are all hanging in there, DBing and beating our heads against the wall against very heavy odds.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread