I like the advice you gave yourself.

I remember recieving the final D papers in the mail. It was one paper with a stamp on it. Our marraige was done with one paper!

Now look where I am (shhh....dont say it), it may not be great by far and still really painful but its not over. Never really was. Even if your D goes through you never know.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!