Is it low libido or lack of attraction?

[ksuer06]

Not me!!! I think it's lack of the emotional attachment more than anything. I'm completely UNinterested in anyone other than my H (I'm the HD spouse), but when I have moments of lack of arousal, it's usually b/c we don't have that emotional attachment that women crave. I saw a C b/c I thought that my H was "ugly" and unattractive. She said that it was lack of attachment. So we worked on it together, and pretty soon I was completely attracted again, and he never lost a pound.