I'm there with you....I know exactly how you feel. The rules changed somewhere along the way... I've been trying too hard to do what comes/came naturally in the past...now I'm trying to do things differently. The sitch can be all consuming sometimes...I understand that!
Hang in there...some days are up and some days are down. You are getting some wonderful advice from people here and it helps all of us to read your posts and the replies.
Worry about you....let H be...I know you don't want to...but you have to....this is his journey and we're just "lucky" enough to be along for the ride!
Hugs!
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally
