Mike,
forgot to mention. I believe you not getting and sending a v-card to W was a wise decision. In the end with out realizing it you would have set yourself up to be hurt by her again.
Have to start doing what ever you need to do so W doesn't hurt you anymore. That would be a surprise to her. I honestly believe the MLC S thinks the LBS is responsible, even in present for all their problems. They blame the LBS if they even have a bad day. So when LBS walks from the S they are shocked and don't know what to do . So be happy in not sending a v-card. Never crossed my mind. I'm working hard on letting go of H. That seems to be his wish so be it.
grid, lost


-Love of dogs, every time I loose a dog to the bridge,part of my heart goes too. Ever time a puppy/dog comes into my life,he gives me a part of his heart. If live my life long enough, in time I'll have the heart of a puppy. -unknown (w/character limit)