Are you happy that he got you flowers? If so, relish it and don't nit pick on the color. Also, have you seen him yet? Give him the benefit of the doubt first regarding delivery. Baby steps.
I have to tell myself "baby steps" all the time. Have you found jen_jams top 10 yet on this site? If not, search for it, it's awesome.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09