Dar, You don't have any idea of what goes through his head, or what he is thinking. That is why it is not safe to ASSume anything. Worry about Dar and your daughter. Your Husband is a big boy and right now he is trying to figure out the crap in his head. Let him sort things out all by himself. He needs a friend, NOT a wife or a Mommy
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.