Sounds like things are going well! Hey, for tonight, why not just keep it low key? Light a fire, put on a movie or pick up a good book, cozy up on the couch...maybe cook some pasta, they have great fresh stuff at the market that tastes special...make a salad, garlic bread, some wine. Keep it normal and low key, maybe even just do it as if you're treating yourself. Let H decide if he wants to join in or not.

Whatever you do, enjoy!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!