The thing about divorce is, it's not a question of "do I, or do I not?" - that is more the question for buying produce this time of the year where I live. "Do I want to spend $6.00 on the nasty discombobulated strawberries for the kindergarten valentines day party?" is where we would employ this logic. (By the way, I did it). When it comes to divorce, the question becomes "how can I improve my life RIGHT NOW and for the future?"
YOU NAILED IT ON THE HEAD!!!>.... WOW didn't think of it like that....HOW CAN I IMPROVE MY LIFE RIGHT NOW AND FOR THE FUTURE....
This entire process of going inside of me instead of outside to him is so new to me. Worrying about him - how things affect him - him him him....AND YES through this again IT HAS BEEN ABOUT HIM ---but it is time for ME...
The hard part? I dont like being alone. BUT your sentence is CLEAR. IT IS NOT about do I want this or not..it is WILL/WOULD I DO FOR ME to make ME . 1) Happy (ok the joy stuff not happy happy bla bla bla) 2) Inner peace 3) Give me hope for my future
Hmmm pondering pondering..
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
