My wife left me the day after Christmas also. I have 4 kids and they are destroyed. My 18 year old daughter stopped taking her birth control and now thinks she may be pregnant!!! My wife calls and said if she is pregnant she will have to quit her job and help take care of it!!! I guess that means she will have to move back in!!! Man I tell you I'm in a mess!!! I want her to move back because she wants too.