thanks again to those who are thinking of me and have taken the time to respond. Today has been hard as I am sure it is for most people on here being Vday.

I'm just not sure of the right way to handle this and go about all this. how much do we talk, how much is too much, or too little? how do you act when you do talk and what the heck do you talk about? WEll H emailed me today said he is going to meet with someone to talk to (a pastor). Says he cant get out of this by himself and hopes this will help. I have my doubts as he has tried MC and C alone and never sticks with it.

Oh what to do....