Sounds like your D11 definitely is noticing and is looking for reassurances. What have you told her about your situation?
It is nice that he still loves me, but he's not "in love" with me. Sometimes I feel really hopeful, but then I remember what a stubborn lout he is and doubt he could say he was wrong, or that he changed his mind.
I'm just trying to back off, do things that make me look a lot happier than I am and wait and see.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09