Oh gosh Cat just do something special for the kids. The other night I was at a party and met this couple who were talking about marriage. I asked them if they were going to have kids and they told me no. The guy said that he was too selfish and didn't want children getting in the way of his marriage and taking his wife's attention away from him. She agreed!
I think with an attitude like that they really should never have kids, but I think they are missing something in their logic. A spouse can always divorce you, but children are your family for life.
There is love out there besides our spouses. Hey, I'm sending some hearts your way!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
