Bombadier...how do you keep going though in the face of no encouragement, if the situation seems bleak!? I do try to focus on me, I'm still struggling with basically missing him though, as he moved out in November and before then we were together every day. But I wait, I hope, I am standing.

I concur with Bomb Purr,I wish I'd learnt that quick too! You should be proud of your efforts so far and great that you are in MC together. And you're right, it is such a painful and confusing place we all find ourselves in.

Ali
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Me: 36
H: 34
LT: 9 years
ILYBINILWY: 2 Nov 07
Own apartment: 26 Jan 08
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Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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