I would lean toward NOT sharing it with her. She would gain the knowledge of knowing what you know. What would you gain? Probably not much. I say keep that recording to yourself...for now. There may be a time later to use it.
You are absolutely right about this:
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she needs to come to her own realization of responsibility and accountability. I can't do that for her.
That is one of the most difficult things -- you probably want to "fix this" or "change her." But you nailed it... you can't do that. Only she can change. She has to take responsibility of her actions. You can only control you!
