Thanks for your thoughts. I feel good about my actions but I have a gut feeling that she will be talking to the lawyer soon about seperation. I am learning not to assume. I am also getting really good at not argueing and asking for time out if she brings up a tough subject. I am giving her lots of space. My gut also tells me that the OM is lurking but I am not going to worry about what I can not control. I have also been the one to end phone and text conversations sooner than they should which I can tell she does not like. She likes me to carry on until she says she has to go. I am learning man, but it is tough. I really appreciate your support and thoughts. Happy V Day.
