Thanks for your advice, I too think that talking with om's wife is not a good situation to be in.
I need to distance myself from that whole sitaution. I am not sure why she called either, but I was very careful about what I said, but I won't get drawn into that situation anymore..
Fyre..
PS. I am on a roll at work anyhow and don't need the frustration, dirty medical call on monday, and huge structure fire last night, some peace and tranquility sounds darn good right now.