that's an interesting point ellie made. whatever it is, your H is probably the only one with the whole story. That's why we always have to keep an open mind cause you never know exactly what the other person was feeling. so many R's (friends or M's) are broken because people don't find out what exactly is wrong, and it ends up being BOTH people thinking the other person doesn't like them or something silly. I'm glad you gave them that xmas gift, and you've continued to be civil to them.
That IS really scary about the wreck, and very cool H was comforting with you. And Awesome he made it to the next level too! oh and good job not freaking out soo much that it controlled you or caused physical problems.
So glad to hear how well things are going. Don't be scared about V day, it's just another day, don't expect anything, but maybe wear some really sexy nighties that H hasn't seen yet? I wouldn't even worry about giving him a gift, (unless that was his top 5LLs, can't remember)
MAKE a great day today!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."