Yea, I should have edited that part out since I knew the answers already.
Jack, as far as Drew's analogy. I must not get it then. I took what Drew was saying as the football player (me really) being dumped and then clingy. The girl that dumped (H really) didn't do much but consider him a stalker. Then the football player GAL and made life work for him. Drew asked if the girl would look twice at that football player now that what he has to offer is more attractive, even though she ended things thinking he's a stalker.
Sooooo, I took it as Drew suggesting I GAL and have H miss me, wonder what I'm doing GAL'ing, etc to become attracted to me again.