Well two things can happen now. She gives it another shot or she goes right to the lawyer and files. What do you thing. Please keep in touch I enjoy your wisdom.
Personally, I think you did the right thing.
Whatever she does next... dont panic, either way. that's the main thing.
IF things calm down after a week, and IF she doesnt make continued big D noises... you might ask her then, if it would be ok for you to sleep in your regular bed again with her.
"giving her space", while she's extremely angry and wound up, is a good idea. But continuing to keep distance, if that wears off, may not be. it's a tough call to make, though. you have to be able to read her very well, to judge if she will take it well.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
