I am going through a nightmare right now with my Ex-Wife and this is a true story that has gave me much hope. This is true first hand knowledge.
M & W married. W wants out has boyfriend. D happens. M tries for 3 months to get her back. Fails. W stays with boyfriend. M starts dating after 6 months. W sees M with OW she freaks out goes to EX house and begs to come back. They reconcile and now have 3 Kids. Both say they are happier than ever. M, D, EA, PA, Back together in one year.
Another good true story. Just happened last week. M and W married. M has affair with W best friend. The OW was married to his best friend!!! W leaves. Best Friends Leaves. M waits 12 years, dates and never marries. Wife returned last week, she has missed him everyday for 12 years!!!
My Ex-Wife called and told me this story. She then stated that it was hard to believe that after 12 years they still had feelings for each other. She now is considering coming home, she does not want to be in misery for the next 20 years. We have been together for 23!!! I pray she makes the right choice, but It is up to her, I am not pressuring her at all. Beg, Prayed, Prayed, Prayed, Beg, Beg, Cry, Cry, Offer My Business, Nothing worked. Of course this site flags all of that. So now doing DB.
I am always up for a success story! Thanks so much. That is the best thing anyone could give me on Valentine's Day with the exception of my W coming home.
-B
Me-45 W-34 T-5 M-3 1/2 s-10 s-12 ILYBNILWY 12/26/07 Sleeping away from home at friend's house(because she says she can't get any sleep otherwise) 1/14/08 1/25/08 We tell kids she is moving out
My wife left me the day after Christmas also. I have 4 kids and they are destroyed. My 18 year old daughter stopped taking her birth control and now thinks she may be pregnant!!! My wife calls and said if she is pregnant she will have to quit her job and help take care of it!!! I guess that means she will have to move back in!!! Man I tell you I'm in a mess!!! I want her to move back because she wants too.
I hope things work out for you, smartypants, and I wish my H (who just told me today that he's filed) would hear about those stories and have a change of heart as well.
Me:30 H:30 Together:10yr H left:Oct3'06,couple weeks before 5th wed anniv. No Kids OW bomb:Jan19'07 My thread: He filed.
