Oh my gosh, Thank You.....I am call my attorney ASAP and ask these questions. What a brillant idea!

I too believe OW is pushing for H to Divorce. These types of Women! I hope when they face God, he really gives it to them! It amazes me how wives, like us, help put our hubby's through college, raise the children, etc. and when they decide they are unhappy or something else comes along....out the door they go. I am so Sad you are hear....and your story my goodness!

My boys are also well rounded, well liked, sports, smart (all A's up to this point in school including all grades).....They have never been in any trouble or even talked back for that matter. Great Boys! I am Truly Blessed. It breaks my heart my boys are having to deal with this and H is missing out on so much and all for what??? What the little head can do when a man allows it to. Or better yet, what a WEAK man to allow someone or something come between their family as well as destroy their life. I would have never thought this would happen.

I wish you luck. Are you still in our dream home? With his parents? What do they think about this? How long have you been apart? Did he stay with the OW? Do you have any contact with him? How are your children?

I wish you happiness. This stinks! Really, Really stinks! This quote helps me when I am really down which at this point is about every other minute. It goes like this.....If God brings it to you....He will bring you through it!!!! Today, being Valentines day really stinks!!! It is the first Valentines day in 31 years that I have had without him. What a crappy day!!!


2ndnoah
Married 24 years
Dated 6 years
H Filed D 3/5/08 Crushes my Heart!
2 teenage boys 15&19
Missing Him!