I, too, inquired regarding Retro. I was told that, because my wife was actively involved in an affair, we were not eligible to participate.
One "catch" is that there are post-weekend follow-up meetings that are necessary for success. So there will be 3 or 4 additional drives involved. But from what I understand, it's well worth the investment in time (provided your wife breaks-off the relationship and agrees to participate).
Another user here (Sara) has participated in Retro. As she is a regular poster, I have no doubt that it's only a matter of time before she checks-in.
