Thanks everyone, he even brought me a rose bud plant and candy before he left. It was so sweet. I sent him an e-card. He'll get it when he gets back to his parents.

Kimmie,
I'm so sorry. I know how you feel. I'm feeling really great right now but I also realize how quickly it can spiral. I have to handle this with kid gloves. No pressure, being calm, still giving him space, no control and no, absolutely no criticism. It could go south in an instant if he felt that way.

I have worked so hard to make changes in myself. Yoyo, Saffie, Husband, Lwb and Sues, among others have seen my posts since last October. I was very reactive and emotional. I didn't really start working hard until after the first of the new year. It's been hard but very worth it. It's been great for my kids and myself. My H says he sees the changes in me too which made me feel good.


LuvMyHusband
Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008
Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA