Thanks bomb, Yea I need to do that, had another rough one last night, guess this is the week for it, but I didn't call her I just came on here and kept busy and it passed.

But I did get an interesting call last night from om's wife. She called and talked to me for awhile, I told her about db site and said she should spend some time on it. It felt very strange not sure I will do that much more.