Hi Ellis, I'm sorry I haven't posted much lately. I just caught up with your thread. I'm so sorry for all of the pain and hurt that your H has caused you and your DD.
As far as Valentines Day goes. Make it special for you and your DD. Get her something for VD Day. Order pizza, watch a movie, play a game with her. Make it a special day for her. Make it fun for you both, remember it is a day to share with your loved ones and she is the love of your life!
Hugs!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon