I'm not very good at all this DB stuff, but I think you err when you talk to her about your feelings. That is why you are getting the neutral tone responses from her. Don't talk about your feelings! Even if you've given up on the DBing, stop it!!!! She is not capable of understanding at this point. She is too wrapped up in her own pain to feel yours. And all it does is cause you more pain. Did you enjoy that dagger to your heart? I think not. STOP IT! STOP IT! STOP IT!
Yeah, got abused by FIB on the phone this morning also. I'm slow to let go I guess. It's not like all the pain/ fear/ anxiety I've been feeling the past year has disappeared either. It's all there and hard to deal with that plus her leaving and her EA.
No, I did not like the daggers.
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Frank, make a goal to accomplish ONE thing today for yourself that will benefit YOUR life. Finish a work project. Talk constructively to one of your partners. Do that computer stuff you do so well. Do what you do best. Aces, Frank. Think aces.
That's what I'm setting as a goal today. No calls to anybody until I get ONE thing done.
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Take care of Frank and so much of this will become so much easier for you. I promise.
And I know you always keep your promises. Thank you.
