I don't know how you view forgiveness, but I'd like to share a few of my thoughts on the topic, the way I've approached it:
1-It's not a one-time deal. It's a continuous choice. It's important to feel and deal with your feelings connected to what brought about the need for forgiveness, but you can still choose to do it every time they bubble over. When the feelings come back, you go back to your choice.
2-As you make the choice to forgive, you will be strengthened and lifted. You're not in this alone, whatever your view of God, there is power in loving and walking by faith.
3-Forgiving doesn't mean forgetting...it means letting go of the anger and allowing peace to live in your heart.
