Walk Away Fiancee

[nate75]

Thank you for the feedback Ms. Ladybug and Fish! I really appreciate it. I just second guess my plan sometimes. She broke up with me 9 days ago. I have gone totally dark. I have only responded to her 2 emails and 1 text message. My responses have been upbeat, polite and to the point. I have moved out without running into her to avoid any possible encounters.

Unfortunately, I don't know if I am in a good situation to turn her head. We have no contact so she does not have any opportunity to see me "act as if" or GAL. On top of that she still considers herself finished with me.

It boggles my mind that within one week we go from planning a wedding and looking at an apartment to breaking up! I know every situation is different, but how long does it usually take to start to see changes after going dark? Thanks.

Nate