I took your advise and told W that the Bozo MC was more of a DC than MC. I told her I never wanted to see him again and he should have never pushed her like that. I told her in no uncertin terms that I am not ready to give up on us and do not want to be seperated or D and explained was not in the best interests of anyone and we needed time to work on things. i was very clear and asked her not to respond but just think about my words. Things have been very calm in the house since I moved out of the bedroom, no arguments, no R talk, pretty mellow.
Well two things can happen now. She gives it another shot or she goes right to the lawyer and files. What do you thing. Please keep in touch I enjoy your wisdom.