I am coping with depression, but sometimes not well.
Are you on any meds?
I guess I feel like he is the one who wants the divorce, not me, so why should I do all the work for it and make it easy for him?
Absolutely. I wouldn't lift a finger.
I know, though, from different sources, (including his cell phone text messages that I look at when he leaves it laying around!) that they fight...
Why are you snooping? Quit. Right now. It will only cause you pain. And if you get caught, or confront him over anything you find, you will only make things worse...much worse. Rise above. There are much better ways you could be spending your time.
But according to him, he is oh-so-happy, is moving on with his life, and she will be a part of it.
Baloney. Smile and tell him you're glad he's happy. But he's not. She's just a pacifier.
...but he doesn't want to hear anything negative in connection with her...
Do not say anything negative, ever, about the OW. If you attack the OW, he will attack you. And it will only make you the common enemy and give them something to unite against. Stay the h*ll out of that.
Bomb
Me: 51 W: 50 M 24 yrs EA: since Apr 06 S22, S26, S28 ILYBNILWY:Nov 07
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden
