Hi everyone,
Yes, it's me, LuvmyHusband. \:\) My H arrived last Friday and left yesterday. Things went well for a bit, got tense, then ended up very well. Tuesday, was a little difficult at first but then something changed. I don't know what happened but he apologized for some things. We sat down and talked. Really talked and really listened to each other. It was wonderful. We expressed our feelings about behaviors, actions, hurtful things. We talked about future expectations of behavior that we would not accept and things we wanted to see different in each other.

We talked again in the morning before he left. It was so different, so very different. The dynamics are changing between us. He said he does want to reconcile, that sometimes when we aren't getting along that he doesnt but that most of the time he does. I understood what he was saying as I have felt the same way. He actually said "ILY" over the phone. I about fell out of my chair!


LuvMyHusband
Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008
Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA