Cat, thank you for visiting my thread and leaving me some expert opinion on 'forgiveness'. Much food for thought there and I appreciate it.
Originally Posted By: cat03
I guess the agreement was another form of me keeping tabs on him, yea, pretty ridiculous since we 've been married and he was doing all that crap.
I don't agree with this, Cat. I believe the agreement was important in its' own right, for H as well as for you. It signified H's intention . Of course, whether or not he can honor the agreement, given his lingering 'feelings' for OW is another thing. In the battle for H's soul, will feelings trump intentions? Will 'feelings' win out over the higher aspects of what it is to be a man?
The drama continues! Stay tuned, Cat.
BTW, I have the same feelings about IC that you do. If only we could count on truly professional behaviors from them, but often their own personal history & value system gets in the way of their professional counsel. But at bottom, this is only another rough spot along this rough, rough path. Hang in there.
