While this sux, it wasn't unexpected. The question is what can you do to take care of yourself while you struggle with this pain? I'm a believer that if you care for yourself you can move to more positive thoughts (being positive he's an ass doesn't count) sooner. I'm not exactly known for my optimism. I'm one of those who thinks the glass is too big when asked if it's half empty or half full. Having said that, let me tell you I start everyday with my goals in mind and end everynight with gratitude for all that happened in the day. Heck, if it can help me......
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I can't imagine there are any trustworthy men out there... I trusted once and look what happened.
Everyone isn't him. It's easy to fall into the trap of being defensive and digging a chasm around yorself. Isolating yourself (IMO) won't help. While very few people know of my sitch, I have been awed by the kindness and support I've found esp here on this bb. You need time to mourn and heal. Anything I can do to help.....let me know.
