Losing it: narcissistic mother ruins my DBing

[stella_k]

Start DB'ing YOUR MOTHER......

What a thought:)

Thank you, Jeanette, i will try.

Actually, I can try doing 180 and see if it works.

And she will never, never understand the damage she has done. N is living in
his own world and he/she is never wrong.
I have told my H many times, that he is the most important thing in my life,
he and our D17, and I'm sorry that I've let her cast such a shadow over his (our!)
life.

But since there is OW in the pic, I HAVE to be the bad guy. And I'm
afraid when he visits NM, he sees the distorted image of me, which suits him
just fine and justifies his A.

When I asked him to stop visiting her (and bring her stuff, and fix things in the
house, etc), he said it's all right, he can ignore her and I cannot. I didn't want
to insist, because of 180 I'm practising (no pressure).
What a mess:(


The best of luck to you too!

Stella