definitely happened before the affair. In my sitch the affair was a result of things not being "what they should" be in my M. I didn't have the loving feelings for my H and this OG ignited something. I've noticed attractive men, I've been hit on by them and all of that but when things were ok between me and H it didn't matter.
I've had ups and downs with my feelings for H and this was was a real down and I got deeply involved. I ONLY want things to go up and stay up so this is never even a passing thought. it husrts way too much. Hurts me, hurts H, hurts OG - it just sucks.
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