Ali,

Why do you need encouragement from him? I know it's damn hard, but what has helped me is to quit focusing on the spouse and concentrate on me. Don't expect encouragement...you won't get it.

Purr, you are doing great. I wish I had learned and adapted as quick as you.

Bomb


Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden