You can let the L do the foot-dragging for you -- while you act all friendly and cooperative towards your H. You make a point of shrugging your shoulders and saying something like, "Gee, I guess these things just take a lot more time than we realize. I am sorry, H, but its in the hands of our attorneys now."

See, you let your L and the legal system appear to be the reason behind the delays, while you play innocent.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.