I'll be checking the detaching thread as well. I need to figure out the subtle difference between letting go and lovingly detach. (Sometimes it is easier to let go).
I am with you, I can't make any suggestions, I shouldn't right now to anyone actually, because I am not the best to be around these days...
Good luck Essie, this is so great for you, I hope you get it! They couldnt really give it to the CEOs brother could they !? Isnt that nepotism. Thanks for your help on my thread, been a bit of a negative nelly today! I will try and perk up and think about goals for me like you said. I hope you get the job !!
Valentines day... such a chore. Really what is a girl supposed to do with that much chocolate, a forest of flowers, and don't even get me started on the perfume. Its tough! Ha ha!!
Job interview went really well. Thanks everyone for your support!
Hi Essie..V day, yuk. Someone asked me if I sent my BF a card or something, I got in a panic and said, no, do you think I should of !? Ridiculous. I take it you didnt contact your H either!? Ali x _________________ Me: 36 H: 34 LT: 9 years ILYBINILWY: 2 Nov 07 Own apartment: 26 Jan 08
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Hope you get the job...sounds like you are standing strong! Just wanted to let you know that I think you are doing great and I appreciate your comments and advice!
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally
I went through boxes of old stuff that had old cards H had sent me. Was hard nd good to read. Good to read them and realize that we were actually in love once upon a time, and I didnt imagine it all! So many cards saying how I was the best thing that had ever happened to him and one that said "I hope God will strike me down if I ever take you for granted"! God - could you please take him up on that?!? Also really hard to see all the photos of when we were dating and first married - they were such good times, and we are clearly happy and in love. Oh well he has 'forgotten' about those times for whatever reason, and obviously doesn't want any reminders of it. Was tempted to put aside stuff to help him remember - but fortunately realized that if he doesn't want to see them it will only make matters worse. Why cant he ring me?!?
I'm also glad I'm almost through the sorting the boxes out. Its emotionally draining, but once its done I too can forget about it for a while.
I'm going shopping for some treats for me - clothes and also some new things for the house. If and when H ever comes to see me, I do want it to physically look like I'm moving forward. And of course I want to move forward for myself!
