Oh hurt mom, I am so sorry. You found a good place. Its helped me tremendously.
First of all, you posted correctly and everything looked good. My only other question would be your ages, but that's because I am nosy.
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As things went on I found out the day after christmas it had been going on for months and was much deeper and more involved than I could have imagined
This happened to me and it was devastating to realize how emotionally attached my H and OW were during their A. To me, it was as bad as the physical part. I felt my H took all his emotions/heart/caring, and was giving it to someone else. It still hurts that he did that, even though the A is over (he still wants a D).
Glad you have read the DR/DB books. I also suggest Not Just Friends and Surviving Infidelity. And down the road maybe "Love Must Be Tough".
At this point, there is not much else you can do but take care of yourself and your little baby (I love that age!). Is he asking to see your child? I know you said you were in another state, just wondering if he is wanting to see his baby. You cannot change his actions, which took me so long to realize.
