Tonight was much more cordial. Although I did listen ALOT!!!!!! I stood my ground on several issues...no arguing but made it clear that some things I can live with and others I can not. I guess she liked what I was saying because I got several hugs. We were not even sitting on the same couch. Funny that she still feels like she needs space.... Anyhow, W is very happy that she will have her three daughters with her for a valentines supper. I am in charge of the supper. W has decorations and desert...I have apetizer and main meal.....I am leaning towards a fondue.